>>816538212nd wave feminism is about how women are awesome and they don't need to be belittled as victems or held back as being somehow inferior to men.
Third wave feminism is about how men are terrible and have victimized women.
The difference is in the inherently positive/negative aspects. 2nd Wave is about leading, 3rd wave is about victimization and reparation. A 2nd wave feminist makes her success and fights stupid bullshit that holds her back, third wave demands that inequity be reparated . she does not have to make her success, it is given to her, by a man. 3rd wave feminism is inherently anti women, as it makes weakness of strength and victrms of leaders.
Also internet reactions are invariably absurdist populism, reactionary in nature and hyperbolic in its responses. You cannot take it seriously.