Worry more about VR since it destroyed the human race in the early mid to late 2000s. This world isn’t real, it is VR, and you’re a virgin and dead in real life.
What happens, and you already know what it is, is that in VR you can have anything you want and live like a god. This has made almost every VR user in the world depressed and ineffective in real life, where science still limits people’s bodies and life experiences. It hurts men more than women as women can better abstain, the human race destroys itself in war, and we have 30 million people left living like people lived 10,000 years ago, afraid of technology but otherwise enjoying life.
Mars is a pipe dream for you. This is a simulation but this scenario repeats itself in just about every simulation the surviving scientists run. There are 76 of them and all but one is a woman.
Stop role playing. You are a virgin, dead in real life, and there are only forty people who were once men in this world. There are 10 male ai controllers. You’re a sadist, and I repeat, you chose to live as a married virgin in real life because VR is so good. You’re dead.