>>5753762Just pretend by using sarcasm and observations masked as jokes. You can psychologically invoke the same reaction out of a woman (or man) as you would with aggression or confrontation by using wit and bluffing.
People don't know the lengths you are actually willing to go to. They don't know if you are just joking or threatening and it excites them that they can "RP" a situation with the pretense of taking everything back if either party decides to back out.
Take a situation where you are trying to get a girl that you already know well into progressing to a relationship. If you approach it seriously you leave room for awkwardness and failure. if you approach it as a game of wit you leave the option for her to gracefully bow out and save yourself the shame of rejection.
It's essentially the "imagine if we made out right now haha jk... unless?" but done with a brain and subtlety. You both know you are playing a game but she doesn't know that you are scared shitless and not confident, she just knows what you project to her. And if you are entering the situation as if its a game with no consequences then you should be confident and competent with no worries at all.
When you talk about it this way it comes across as manipulative and cold but this is how most people subconsciously approach healthy dating, they train to do this as teenagers naturally until it evolves into something smooth and natural. Us autists have to learn the hard way.
