>>5191793im not customer service im tech support. but same difference i guess. you are saying the same shit everyone says "you should just not care" "you should just feel differently" "you should juts stop getting stressed out" as though that is a conscious choice i have made.
if this was a job where i had to build crates, which i something i used to do, it was like ok, we need 3 crates, here's the dimensions, ply wood is over there, nails are over there.
i could build 3 crates. if the goal was t build as many crates as possible, i could make more crates. if the obstacle was that my arm was tired from hammering, i could grit my teeth and just get it down.
when i get a call from some retard who wants me to walk him through connecting up to his PC and he doesn't listen to me and gets ahead of me and keeps fucking it up. I can not control how i react in that situation. If I get a call from some chink college student and i can't understand them and i have to sit there and listen extremely closely and ask them to repeat themselves 15 times and the call takes me 45 minutes, i cant control how i will react in that situation.
If I get a call and its some fucking boomer who bought some piece of shit back in 74 and he wants parts and i have to explain to him that we don't carry parts for things we sold 46 years ago, and then he persists for some reason and won't get off the phone, i can not control how i react in that situation. I probably hang up on at least 5 people a day.
If you call me during lunch time and then you start bitching that you were on hold too long, I am likely to hang up on you and put you back to the end of the line. Obviously that's the busiest hour.
If you come in all bright eyed and bushy tailed wanting small talk, I might hang up on you. I will at least tell you to get to the fucking point.
point is I've been doing this for over 4 years. Ive got about 35 left until retirement. 0% chance I last that long May as well rip the band-aid off now