>>97843248I think the frustration comes from a place that is spiteful of both indoctrination and the futility of it,
The idea that your sexual orientation ever needed to be questioned in the first place is totally unnecessary but somehow in fashion to do so. Most women trend towards wanting to follow the group, and usually scale higher in openness and neuroticism, with the added bonus of not being as repulsed by tender interactions with their own gender, so the women are particularly susceptible and of course it comes with a certain cool factor that's oh so attractive.
And then there's the futility of it, I think we could agree that it is ubiquitously noticed that young women go through a phase of questioning their sexuality only to eventually arrive back at being straight again. So that might have spanned an indefinite period of time where the person was sexually unavailable to men. Not to say it would be better for them follow through with being a lesbian for life because that option is even less productive.
So much of a person's mind is malleable during their formative stages though so to have such a malignant idea of needing to question your sexuality spread around is seen as insidious, especially since it's such a modern idea and we've all done quite fine without it so far so a person has to wonder why we don't discard it.
