You're seemingly sane enough to have a serious talk with, so I'll play along for the time being.
For the longest time I disliked LGBT people because I was only ever exposed to the jackass hard left version of them.
They were always screeching about some stupid crap I couldn't care less about and how it was my fault as a strait male.
Then I met the kinda fags that browse 4chan and fit right in, them I like quite a bit, we have common ground and we speak the same language.
The same can be said for any group, it's about sharing a common culture not what who you screw or your race.
That said, it also cemented the fact that feminists, lefties, and people too far on the right, will never be the kind of people I can enjoy being around.
If everything I do must meet arbitrary standards set by whoever created your ideology to be acceptable I'd rather have nothing to do with you or that ideology.
Feminism and feminists have only made things worse from what I've seen through out my entire life, they just bring more division and demands.
Ultimately if women choose to let feminists be their mouth piece to the world I'm fine with telling them to piss off collectively, I'm not willing to conform to some idiotic standard created by some hateful feminist dyke that makes crap up to support her incorrect beliefs.
No group of people, especially women, have the right to make that kind of demand.
Do I hate anyone who has a vagina or a left leaning perspective? No.
Do I hate anyone who tries to force their insane backwards ideology into every aspect of my life and while calling me problematic for not going along with it?