First, let's look at Edward and Jacob, from Twilight.
The thing that make Edward supernatural is he has glitter on his skin permanently and sparkles. This isn't very supernatural or paranormal compared to fishtails, being made of slime, chitin, spinning webs, and so on. So already, you are comparing girls that have visible attributes that are far more unusual than a guy who looks like he got hit by a glitter bomb. Looking at Jacob: Hypertrichosis. MAYBE he's a better candidate. Maybe.
But again, both he and Edward are extremely emotionally abusive sex perverts. Think of how old Edward is. Think of how old the main character is in Twilight. That makes Edward a disgusting pedophile like the people you compare him against.
ON TOP OF being a disgusting pedo by any standard, he's emotionally and physically abusive. NOTHING about him is preferable to a human male.
Almost all those examples given ARE real dudes. They are dudes played by actors. Actors who, if they got where they are in hollywood, probably have seen or KNOW of sexual misconduct by the producers and directors. The people who they are swooning over are not only actual real men and LOOK like real men, but are probably complicit on some level with the disgusting sickos they hate on the right side.
One is 2d perfection, the other is STILL 3DPD.