>>94139072Recognizing that you have problems is not the same as taking active steps towards fixing them.
Doing things you think SHOULD fix your problems or make you happy is not the same as identifying why your have your problems ore what inside you is making you unhappy.
Relying on other people to resolve your problems or make you happy only drags them down with you and threatens to poison your relationship with them. You need to make the change within you yourself.
Who you want to be and who you think you want to be are often two wildly different people.