>>89211558It's not about women being women. It's probably more to do with how women have rigorous self-grooming habits and it eats up a lot of time, which can be frustrating. Men respond to them, so women do them. Women can stop grooming themselves, but then maybe guys would be less motivated to approach them because they look less perky and less pretty.
The whole anti-patriachal thing says, "You can stop the grooming habits and be YOU."
Which is silly because they always could do that and Feminism didn't really empower them, it just told them that men are wrong for gravitating to women who appear energetic and concerned about their appearances. It's why the kind of Feminism Tat espouses is doomed to long term failure, because men aren't really forcing women to put on make up and wear cute outfits or frilly underwear. It's just that men like those things and women want to attract men.
And I dunno, men have to go through a lot to get women too. This is life, this is how it is. You can call it unfair, but the only way to make it better is to make grooming easier and faster somehow rather than trying to shame men into dating a women who looks tired and has hairy armpits.