>>83986766Stop with the poor me shit, pull your head out of your ass and stop expecting things to just drop in your lap.
You have to work for all those things, kid.
Do you think the right girl is just going to magically show up at your door and say "Oh Anon, I love you so much! Make love to me!"?
Do you think the phone is going to ring one day and the voice on the other end is going to offer you the job of your dreams?
You have to work your ass off in this life to get what you want. It just doesn't get handed to you.
Also, you need to re examine your priorities. Honestly look at what you want and ask yourself why you want it.
All that stuff is great, but if you aren;t happy without it, how the fuck do you expect to be happy with it? An girlfriend is great, but if you're looking for her to be the thing that make you happy, you never will be, and your relationship is doomed from the start. You have to be happy with yourself first.
Trust me on this I spent years mooning over women, and wondering "When's gonna be my time Lord?!?!?!", and when it finally did happen, it didn't last because it was only about me. Not "Us". So now I've spent even more years trying to better myself, to learn more about life, to make myself the person that can have a healthy relationship. And you know what? It sucks ass. It's tough, it's depressing and it's painful.
But it works.
I'm not who I was back then.
A lot of the things I wanted wouldn't bring me true happiness. I may never meet someone again. I may never get that job with all that cash. But you know what? I don't care. I'm happy with what I have. It's sufficient.
Is it a cakewalk? Did it just happen overnight? Fuck no man. Blood, sweat, tears, struggles, they're all ahead of us. You have to learn to plow through. It's not easy at all. That's what makes it worthwhile when you do make progress because by God, you EARNED it!
Seriously, talk to somebody. Listen to what they say. Act on their advice. Take charge and just do it.
