>>83327728that's just claptrap though. as soon as she says that, someone else tells her it's not the case. we all got told that shit and it's like 'no, people just suck, i'm already being much nicer to them than they are to me'
but eventually we learn you have to be even nicer than that, because life will always shit on you for being better, so just go with it
as for you, OP, there is nothing okay about trying hard in gym class