>>81642202I would agree, except that I don't think it's okay if someone chooses to do this while they're in a relationship. It's not okay to sleep around and expect someone else to always be there and be okay with it. Especially if you didn't talk to them about it first. It's one of those situations where people just need to realize they can't do sporadic shit if they're tied to someone or if they expect that person to be tied to them. Don't just sleep around when you have a significant other and don't try to trick him/her by saying you want a time out and then secretly go out sleeping around. And if you sit them down and they aren't okay with it, or you know they wont be, then tough titties for you. You shouldn't expect people to change their morals for you, that isn't how the world works. A relationship is about compromise and understanding. If she knew he wasn't going to be okay with it, the worst thing she could've done was go out and do it anyway, without him knowing, and expect him to be okay with her going back to him afterward even though she clearly knew he wouldn't be okay with it. It's a violation of his trust.
What she should've done was weigh what was more important to her: Her experimentation or her relationship with him. And if she sat down and asked him and he said he wasn't comfortable with it, or he didn't like it, she could have ended it there or she could have said okay and gone on with her life as normal. But she didn't follow any sort of rule of human interaction, she went behind his back and did exactly what she clearly knew he wasn't going to be okay with.
>>81645457You know those two wouldn't. It's not in character.
>>81645688Just get out there and try. Don't shoot for 10/10 popular social chicks or whatever. There are plenty f girls out there who are in the same boat as you or are in a more understanding sort of situation. Just drop your expectations a little if you want some kind of party girl or something, man. Come on.