>>119486203>interacting with your grandparentsMy grandparents didn't speak English and they're all dead.
But yes, I do change the way I talk based on who I'm speaking to, BUT, it doesn't split along racial lines, AND, I don't feel like I'm not being true to my culture or racial identity if I change how I speak.
There's none of this ridiculous burden of shame or discomfort that minorities have to deal with. It's great!