>>118813461>I'm hearing >>118814367>I wouldn't describe
Is that because you don't know her, and want to believe the worst? What exactly are you after here? for me to go into details about her integral love of physical play and living a live that built her body for it? Any further additional qualities disqualifying her or anyone from being a 'tomboy' for deviating from a checklist was what I trying to refute in the first place. Yes she's aggressive about what she wants, and can even be unapologetic when going about getting it. Yes. But as far as I know she's never made anyone she's dating guess if she wants to be treated one way or another based on a mood she mentioned in passing, like I think you mean with greentexting 'romance' and "manipulating" somehow.
You're also missing that manipulation isn't just about being selfish. She set me up once in college, some 14 years after we first met. She spent part of a night lying or I guess -ACTING- like she was making a pass at me herself before the introduction. But I let her get away with that because she executed it with a combination of competence, efficient emotional management and bravado that just kneecapped my outrage. She never apologized for lying to me, and after the introduction to her absolute sweetheart of a friend: I didn't press to get one.