>>117259362>Vera made an attempt to salvage a family out of a bad situation. Just as Alfie tried to make herself into a good girl.
>She thotted, but Alfie has never stopped thotting. They are both currently thoting.
>And unlike Alfie we actually see Vera's prolonged misery.Except we see Alfie is miserable in her town, in her house, when her mother snaps at her for being bi like her father, when the people from the caravan project onto her, etc.
>I'd say running off with a caravan without any plans or anything is a pretty bad choice. Considering the alternative was to stay in a town where she wasn't happy with a family that made her miserable? No, leaving and having your own life isn't a bad choice, and the plan is to experience life.
>This is what I'm talking about. You clearly either idealize or project yourself on to Alfie and excuse anything she does as "she's just a poor victim who wants to be free".Empathizing with people and understanding their struggle is idolizing them and projecting onto them?
>When you do stupid shit, yeah. And you're the one to decide what's stupid? Do you often try to dictate how people live? Are you like that redhead that shames people that don't live how she would like them to live but then does the same thing?
>Let's turn this around. Actually let's not, because I think this says a lot about you and how you try to force people to live in a certain way because you don't approve of anything else.
>What right do Alfie, Marco and Lydia have to subject everyone around to their sexuality? What business of theirs is their sexuality?
>We know for a fact other characters aren't comfortable around it.And why do someone's rights end where your comfort zone starts? We're not even talking about something morally wrong like calling out pedophiles, you just want to call out people for being happy.