>>117163326Men are more sensory, fetishizing things they can see, touch, taste, smell, etc. women are more about relationships and behaviors. If you can get a girl to talk about her fetishes, the vast majority of the time it's S&M-related, because that's what they consider a "normal" fetish. There is an overlap though, a woman might have a "foot fetish" but its less about attraction to feet and more about the submissive act of someone worshiping the feet. Of course this isn't set in stone. Women are also far more social and quicker to follow popular trends than men are & also statistically less likely to deviate from average than men. If large numbers of women find something attractive, then other women are more likely to want/pursue it simply because it's in demand.
