>>116397797Not OP but Fetlife sucks.
Unless they changed it recently.
I've given it a shot twice, a few years apart and it was equally disappointing both times.
The number one problem is the number one thing that's critical for a dating site.
You can't filter or sort by age or gender.
It's just a gallery of people in your area.
50 year old man, 27 year old woman, 19 year old A-gender otherkin, 38 year old divorced mother of 3, couple in an open poly relationship.
Any one of those people might be appealing to someone but only one is in my age/gender preferences.
You can look up individual kinks, but still no age/gender filters.
The forums have tons of threads with people asking for sorting capabilities and a common reply is that "We don't want it to become a meat market."
Well how do YOU expect to find someone on there?!!??! Or be found? Your perfect partner could join the site and never see your profile.
I've got to scroll through 100 profiles to find just 5 that match my base level requirements. Never mind their actual personality and appearance.
