Damn, I was about to shoot my shot.
Also, were they FFM or MMF?
Actually, no. The more important question is, were all three of you comfortable with each other as friends and sexual partners? In the same way that two people should or must have good chemistry with each other before pursuing a monogamous relationship, all three members of a polygamous relationship (short- or long-term) should have equally good chemistry with each other, or else you risk the alienation of one of the members due to a stronger bond between the other two.
Also, I'm sorry that you had to close your studio. >>114375232
Patreon's gotten better, or at least I think people are able to get away with it. I know that SFM/Blender artists are able to use Patreon.
Tumblr's anti-porn stance ruined that site, though. A shame they passed on the offer from PornHub to buy it; they'd have probably been able to sell it for more than three million bucks (compared to the one billion Yahoo initially paid).