>>112864258what goes on inside your head is your business. when, every time the topic comes up, you say everything hurtful you can think of, it comes across that you are more invested for the sake of having what you see as an acceptable target to abuse. especially bringing up suicide statistics with a greasy, sneering attitude of "it makes me happy when people like you are left so alone and hopeless that you decide you'd rather be dead"
and even if you yourself aren't like that, by siding against transfolk you're siding with people like that and implicitly condoning their behavior, since you're still ultimately saying "I'd be glad if transpeople stopped existing"
there's a degree of tribalism involved, but there's dumb tribalism like "are you a mac or a PC" and there's survival tribalism of "even if less than 1% of transphobes are the type to commit violent murder against transfolk, it still only takes one finding out who you are and where you live to kill you"
to a less dire degree, there's also the ... I'm not sure how to phrase to phrase it, but its kind of like how it feels to be gaslighted. to reveal to someone "this is what I experience" and to be told "no, you don't experience that, I know more about what you experience than you do" its an incredibly cruel thing to do to someone because you're refusing to take them on good faith that they are being sincere about their experiences.
as a caveat, most of what I just said applies way more to meatspace and online circles where you have a persistent identity than on anonymous czekslovakian woodcut forums
