>>111438915That's the word I was looking for, she even has the Jester shoes in her new form. Also a bit of trivia the Jester was often the only person who could insult the king to his face, they often served the role of keeping the leader humble.
The issue is that such a thing would have never flown in Homeworld, nor was seeing you underlings as friends and companions something that was allowed. The closest we see to this is Aquamarine bending the rules to make it so Topaz gets off the hook but that was only after she fell back in line.
>>111438971She met Amythest long after the war began after her experience on Earth gave her a deeper respect for the beings around her. Previously she was thought to treat everyone who isn't a diamond like tools.
Now that's iffy at best, a Diamond asked her to stop and she only did so for a small amount of time when that order should have superseded any previous order that contradicted it. Unless you are making the argument that the order to be her playmate came from one of the other diamonds who had more authority and as such Spinel followed that order instead. That does make sense.
It is almost as if I'm not trying to excuse her actions just explain the mentality behind them, and yeah she likely did forget about her. If she did remember it was probably to wonder what she was up to, because like I said based on her history and actions I do not think the thought that Spinel would have stayed there for long crossed her mind.