For me it'd be someone with a manly face, bonus points for a well-defined jaw, black shades under the sun and reading glasses indoors, dominant, I like poems too but I don't want a suicidal bf, dominant personality and can talk me to death about science, history, cartoons, music... I just want him to be "gloomy and passionate." The chub is a massive extra for me. Believe me, chubby boys are the best huggers and absolute beasts in bed.
Basically I want a fat Andrew Eldritch, with the weeaboo factor included. >>111024493
I've been into goth culture since I was 14. Most male goths glorify the twink look because it makes them look like certain idols of the scene and because it's easier to find clothes for a thin guy.
What pisses me off is how harsh they tend to be to the chubby dudes. Truth is that you don't need a ton of eyeliner and enough hairspray to kill the ozone layer to be goth. To me, a taste for the music and culture along with a Siouxsie and the Banshees t-shirt is more than enough.