>>110272027...that's what you got from that? The gems were worried as fuck too, but they didn't have the balls to bring it up because they're basically his parents and didn't want to upset him. Steven was like "ha ha, nothing bad happened you're stupid" so Connie just peaced out until he got his shit together. That's not an asshole, that's called having a spine and not letting your best friend take their life for granted without consequences. Just because you do something for the benefit of others doesn't mean the others you're saving will be OK with you doing that. You took the choice out of their hands and basically condemned yourself to die for them. They didn't want that, even if it benefited them personally.
tldr Connie is not an asshole, she's a child in the middle of a war. It's amazing she didn't fucking scream at him for being a short sighted twat and Steven would've deserved every bit of it.