>>108950959No clue. I should know it, because I did have parents and/or guardians growing up who cared about me, but I honest to god don't know.
I think it's less of an issue of finding love, but learning to love yourself. And I don't mean that in the narcissistic fashion most modern Facebook thots and thugs operate on. It's the fashion where you accept yourself as is and don't beat yourself up too much over failures, but still know that you need to improve yourself forever.
I'll quote Harlan Ellison's Mefisto in Onyx:
>"I have always been one of those miserable guys who couldn't get out of his own way."Once you get that down pat, you'll stop trying to find love, like a drug addict finding his next reality-avoiding hit, and start trying to live a better life.