>>108675958>>108680552I'm not black but I am brown and I feel similar to you. I'm between two rocks where we either say whatever the fuck we want with my white friends (stuff that offends either of us) or we don't talk about anything that could be offensive and at the same time, rob ourselves of some good laughs.
The best thing to do is just try not think about it too much. Just have your laughs and even if you get offended don't hold onto it. If you feel like they're holding themselves back, don't be afraid to throw out some edgy jokes yourself (but be prepared for the rebound!), it will show that you're not uncomfortable with these things.
This is why I admire aussie banter culture. You can tell a guy to 'fuck off' and still be friends.
