>>108298341You are taking her words too literally. If you aren't a native English speaker, especially if you don't do a lot of reading in English, this is honestly a completely understandable mistake to make, since it would rely a lot on context and implied tone, things which are hard to convey in writing and which cause a lot of people to look like assholes online after a badly worded sentence.
To anyone who actually feels aggrieved, there are tangible things you can do to address your concerns. Posting the same thing again and again, well after the regular posters have digested and now actively ignore your words, does nothing for you or them. Making assumptions about a person you have never met or spoken to is not a good idea, and even though people's random thoughts and emotions are now recorded online, that doesn't make them, in aggregate, a good measure of character. I usually wouldn't write a reply like this, but I'd like to provide a real response on the off-chance there is some honesty in how her words made you feel.
