>>107571899because its blatantly obvious those "beauty standards" for women are absolutely janky. several places have done actual studies (including okcupid) which discovered that while men rate women on a bell curve of attractiveness (meaning about half of women are rated at attractive by men) when women rated men, something like 90% of them were rated as "less than attractive."
Meaning you could be a 6/10, 7/10, 8/10, or 9/10 guy and women will not find you attractive and will not want to date you AT ALL. And in a society that preaches all the time that "you are a person, you inherently have value, you inherently deserve love and kindness and respect" to be treated as absolutley worthless, undeserving of love, kindness, or respect is hurtful. To have it happen over and over and over again and again in a sea of constant rejection turns the pain in to anger. Its no wonder men are upset.
Hell, if I wasn't so over relationships and dating, I'd be upset about it, and I actually can get dates.
