This Lola situation reminds me of what happens every time you meet a hot girl. When you first see one all you can do is thinking with your dick. The girl is hot, everything she does exumes sexiness, and you can't wait to get inside pants. Everything is great. You can't believe your luck.
Then after the sex and everything else, you actually stop and start to try and see this girl as a person. The sexiness doesn't distract you anymore. She's still cute n' all, but dear God. What a fucking mess of a person is this. This girl is fucking weird. She's crazy. And now she's attached to you. The fuck were you thinking. What are you going to do? You can't put up with her antics. She's too annoying.
And that's pretty much how Lola has transformed over the years.