>>100748808No. Harassment is intentionally trying to upset someone by doing something over and over again.
If the roles were reversed it would be awkward at worst, more likely just easily laughed off.
Also, if the roles were reversed, it wouldn't have been such a big deal. A guy in his 30s isn't going to be summoning uo the courage to cautiously ask someone out for the first time in his life. He'll have done it plenty, and been let down plenty. Win some, lose some. He'll say oh well, or something pleasant to defuse any awkwardness, laugh about it, and finish his meal.
This woman was pinning all her hopes on a single roll of the dice, and when it didn't go perfectly the first time vowed never to try that again. Pathetic.