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>>100352917admitedly, the thing is we do not know how Meteora fell in love with the monster, how exactly the relation with her husband was that she would consider going with a monster and so on. But there is also another component to consider: Meteora essentially was willing to abandon the throne to be with her love, but her former human husband would have still been there to be in charge of the kingdom. Meteora essentially just wanted to run away but leave a last meal with a "good bye" note behind. Rose set the house on fire and then as all sad when she got burned to.
In addition, Eclipsa faced consequences for her actions. She was put in crystal and lost essentially everything she loved. Her regaining her daughter is actually part of a short arc revealing not just her past, but also showing how she deals with a life in a new world, making it essential to the plot of season 3 and the overall world building of Star vs.
All Rose did was just create an awful setting for everyone as a starting point for any form of conflict in the show and it was not even properly explored what happened.