>fight for years to get employed in the arts
>no mentors, no proper, long-term schooling, no steady community or help
>finally do it
>hate the fact that nobody was there for you when you were trying to learn, try to do something about that
>offer advice for people, for free
>try to be as clinical as possible, overstate that I'm not trying to be rude
>they get mad
>only do it when they ask for it instead
>get blocked because people don't like the advice
>genuinely trying to be nice and helpful, unironically taking time out of my day to try and give people advice and guidance that I never had
>get called rude for it
why?
>no mentors, no proper, long-term schooling, no steady community or help
>finally do it
>hate the fact that nobody was there for you when you were trying to learn, try to do something about that
>offer advice for people, for free
>try to be as clinical as possible, overstate that I'm not trying to be rude
>they get mad
>only do it when they ask for it instead
>get blocked because people don't like the advice
>genuinely trying to be nice and helpful, unironically taking time out of my day to try and give people advice and guidance that I never had
>get called rude for it
why?
