>>5918854More like, when all you can think about is jerking off and looking at porn all day every day, you just might be a coomer.
When it gets in the way of living a healthy, varied lifestyle and starts to take over your other priorities, you just might be a coomer.
When the only thing you want to talk to other people about is anime tiddies, you just might be a coomer.
Well-adjusted people can separate their sexual desires from every day activities/ conversations. Who's to say how much time these people dedicate to the coom, all we ever see is their social media presence, so it's easy to say "that's all you think about" when we only see a small slice of the pie. Sometimes, you get a sense that it's some of the above though.