There was a time when trans folks didn't want to be visible. They wanted to blend in so effectively that nobody gave a second thought to them transitioning. They passed so damned well and the world kept on turning.
Now it's a performative action for many, as if it's another gender entirely that they want to eek into existence. You're not a man, you're not a woman, you're not neuter, you're trans and thus everyone else's burdon.