what the fuck does that even mean? is that an attractiveness scale? no, i'm not a "10" by any means, but i'm also not a dumpy fat fuck or a skinny toothpick. either way, my wife doesn't care because i actually know how to hook the g. honestly, people complain all the time they can't make their partner orgasm, but you just have to talk to them to figure out what works best.
sex is a learning experience, not just as a means to get your rocks off, but to learn intimately more about your partner than just sitting and talking ever will. there are some things you will never EVER learn unless you're in the moment of passion. it's hard to lie when you're nutting.