Anon above you has a good point by bringing in squirrel girl.
Consider that in Wolverine's mind, Squirrel girl qualifies under his darker
fantasies, so as far as he's concerned, she's the dominant one in the bed or
at the very least is giving him punishment that he enjoys for him to rank up
there with Spiral, Mystique and Emma fucking Frost.
The funny detail here is that no matter who beds Wolverine, Squirrel girl is
the only one that is so far an odd one out that in every interpretation seen of
her, she seems to be too much of a goody-two-shoes to even think of being
caught in the same bedroom as Wolverine. Judging by her fascination with
Speedball, her type is clearly more Cyke than Wolvie and whenever her
encounter with Wolverine happened, it's clear that (1.) Wolverine couldn't
handle her since she kicked his ass during that one fight and (2.) She
probably lost control in bed since Squirrel girl is literally the only character
wolverine has ever warned to not be seen coming around near him again.
Even if Squirrel Girl did enjoy herself, the only implication you can extrapolate
from their exchanges is that she was too eager to match him and emotionally
and he was not okay with what he found, which would probably be a first and
only one-time-ever for him.
Like, SG is emotive and expressive in positive ways that she'd be right at
home co-habitating with Cyke, but people like SG -KNOWING- who and what
Wolverine is all about would definitely mean the bed partner would have to
pull out all the stops just to impress him.