>>10489495Be yourself is not a free pass to be a toxic person. Be yourself means you don't have to warp your tastes/core values to appease others. It means don't stop enjoying classical music or making silly puns because the folks around you think that's not cool. It means keep doing that and find people that like you because of who you are.
Now, if you're just a toxic person you'll fit only in toxic groups, or maybe you're so toxic that nobody wants to be around you. If you don't like that, then yes, you should try to stop being toxic. To do that, follow this advice
>>10489545To add on that, people hate depressives because everyone has their own problems. Other than some extremely charitable people, people don't want to be around people that make them sad. They want to be happy. They want to be with people that will cheer them up. For the same reasons, they don't want to be with someone that's spitting hate all the time.