>>3181522Imo male and female oriented porn are two different extremes, and neither is really preferable to the other.
While men generally split their sex drive and their emotional investment, which is why they think about sex as 'scoring' and don't really want to consider the emotional implications of what they are doing, women more often connect the two, which is why they are prone to immersing themselves in badly written archetypal sexual fantasies and then project the cliches they are fed onto reality.
If you're a well-balanced person and you know that sex and emotional investment can but don't have to go together, and you want to understand what it means to have a meaningful relationship you don't go to pornhub or buy something from the erotica shelf, you watch a well-written romantic movie or tv series, you might start reading poetry and listening to a particular kind of music that didn't do much for you before.
