And then you say our answers are cliché...
That's the dumbest argument antis spew out all the time to sound smart, but it doesn't mean shit. Of course fiction doesn't exist in a vacuum, but fiction affects reality on different levels. Niche fanwork of anime characters will have much less effect on culture as a whole than a mainstream show, and even then it really isn't as simple as "hurr durr it's gonna normalize thing". Do you think people suddenly started to be okay with IRL incest, rape and murder because of Game of Thrones ? Fiction can only affect so much, like exacerbating a fear that was already there like with Jaws. There have even been studies about that shit.
As for your previous question, yes I have a therapist who says it's okay for me to indulge in fantasies. Nearly all therapists agree on that, look it up. It's just human to have fantasies, taboo is a big factor in them, why do you think so many women are into noncon fiction ?
You're litterally some rando on the internet, pissed that a bunch of drawings exist, when they affect next to nothing in real life, and trying to rationalize your temper tentrum with subjective morals.
I get being upset by porn, I'm reaaally grossed out by actual shota, with prepubescent kid characters, but after a while you've got to realize people are just gonna do whatever the fuck they want and the best thing is to make sure no actual person, child or adult, gets hurt, instead of going on some dumb pointless purity crusade. Especially since a lot of the people who draw this stuff are neurodivergent folks who just hyperfocus on characters and sexuality.