>>14414314ask her something, or do something funny, a quip about the professor or something that's going on around you, funny without being mean, sarcastic but not cringe. form a sentence like you would with any other human being.
if she responds then thats your in, if not, you're been rejected, don't be a child, move on, act professionally, your reputation is at stake.
so now you're in hopefully, talk about stuff. she could be alot like you although you live in separate realities. everyone gets stressed, likes food, poops out their bum, is affected by culture, has family, likes to sleep, fantasizes etc.
ok its been 15mins, by now cutie's animal brain has made a decision. use your animal brain to detect subtle pupil dilation, pheromones, idk... it's instinct, trust your gut. there's no forcing it, no logic.
maybe all signs point to yes, then ask "hey you wanna text?"
if you get a number or give yours and she sends one congrats, you did it, you're a man. even better if the timing works like its lunchtime, you could try the old spontaneous "hey you wanna grab coffee/a drink?" not everyone is so impulsive
what comes after anyones guess, there are too many variables, it's an art. you can do it.
be cool, be gentle but not too gentle, be a burly hunter man with a dick ready to hammer some puss but not too manly, and hey whenever your ready for it giiiirl. open but not open all at once, emotional but not too emotional. personalities intertwine, one's strengths can make up for another's weaknesses. opposites attract but not too opposite.
google attachment styles and all that, those tend to mess with your psychology, both what to avoid and what to deal with in yourself.
goodluck smart anons you can do it you have been refined by millions of years of eviloution to do this very thing and its not so hard.
