>>14111345If your ancestors had, say, 10 children, only one of them would survive the ruthless winter. The smartest one. The one who could figure out the best strategies and create the best structures in order to survive. Through the sacrifice of these countless lives and the immense efforts of the most genetically qualified, a level of intelligence / happiness / conscientiousness such as yours became possible.
Your neighbour's family collected berries and ate the same uncooked animals for a billion of years, all while living a climate that was mild enough that all kinds of foods could be found all year long. No need to come up with a new strategy, they just repeated whatever they saw adults doing when they were children.
Saying that both of you deserve the same genes is like saying that you, a doctor, deserve the same wage as him, who has never looked for a job. If you really think that both of you deserve the same genes, you might as well embrace communism and give your children as a gift to the nearest sinagogue.