I am a 5'7 incel. I think about it every day and get reminded of it every time I go out. A couple of days ago I was walking down a path and this young women immediately saw me and let off this really obvious expression telling me that she thought I was garbage and I shouldn't talk to her. Then I saw a tiny woman with a 6 foot 3 man. Obviously this is hardcoded into human biology and I will never be considered attractive or valuable by any woman ever, and it makes sense I will feel bad about this on a daily basis, but is there an off switch for this? I see a lot of dudes who are turbo fucked and they don't care, if they aren't just playing video games they actually put effort into slaving like madmen. How do I not care that I am completely worthless and despised by 3.7 billion people for existing and have failed after a 3.7 billion year long line of relative success so I can relax doing the bare minimum until some world-changing exciting event happens and I probably die?