>>13049596i understand your situation, the same happened to my family. i think a lot about how a family should function, and come to accept the tradition of our fathers, that a family should have two separated parts: supporting and working, distributing to mother and father. a mother should stay at home, do the chore works, teach her kids how to study and do the cookings, that's kinda stereotypical, but it will help a family function well. a dad, like traditionally, should be the worker and the one who bring bread to the table. that's the ideal family in my belief.
in my own personal situation, both my dad and mom doesn't want to completely stay at home, both have to work and make money, so my house is a big mess.
i remember go to my class in highschool with no underwear and have to suffer constant boner due to hard puberty. everytime my teacher ask me to stand up, the penis hit the table and made me stand crookedly with a back bended toward. everytime i checked the laundry, the clothes always wet and unwashed, all dirty. and i went to highschool with my 7th grade underwear, so it's extremely tight, can't even walk normally with that stuff around my under.
my mom worked too hard and everytime i complained, she bring up her hard-working. just wanted to do something to help her but everything was so intense that time, that i have to study extremely hard for college entrance stuff. now it's partly better but i just wish my own family in the future could be a peaceful one with the family members who know their roles.
