>>13045528Bottom to top here.
You have probably been spoiled for a long time in your life and things go your ways, mostly.
Man up (it takes a long time), discard sissy thoughts, and work on your own career. There is a really big trend right now that is trying to make men (even het men) weaker and more sissy. What the retards don't realize is that you can be sensitive but you can also be tough. They are not mutual exclusive. But most of the bottoms I know are worse than my female friends somehow because they think "it's okay to let your emotion runs you". No it's not.
Also, love your partner but don't be financially dependent on them.