>>12558722There's more to it than that, and it's not very well understood by most people. Yes, of course, incels aren't doing themselves any favours by rejecting every possibility of improvement and making themselves as unloveable as they can, but they didn't start out that way. Something started them down the path of incelry. Like I said before, it's probably things like (mild) autism, depression, or social anxiety, things that don't *really* register as a terrible disability and might even go unnoticed for a long time, but which form an incredible hurdle when it comes to forming intimate connections. And when they can't grasp what seems to come so naturally to other people, they start to think something is wrong with them, which, granted, there is, but they focus on the wrong things. They start to think there is something inherently, unfixably, physically wrong with them. They develop body dysmorphia (look how weirdly fixated they are on chins, eyebrows, fucking wrists). And this is only reinforced by society, which tells them that something has to be terribly wrong with them because sex is so fucking easy. And the people to whom it is easy have no idea what they're actually doing that makes it so easy so they can't exactly give proper advice. All the showers in the world, all the nice clothes, all the alcohol you can drink, all the wit, all the Friday nights you go out, none of it will ever matter if you instinctively shrink away from physical contact, if you can't read the subtle non-verbal cues, or if you fundamentally don't believe people could really like you.
And because it is so poorly understood, they end up falling down internet black holes into self-destructive ideologies, because those provide them with answers. Not the right answers, but whatever feeds their shared delusions.
>>12558924>by definitionYes, by definition. There's something wrong with their mind that is affecting their quality of life.
