>>12486438I'm happy for you, please don't pump and dump this girl. Notice how she's already talking about how to educate the kids, that's a proper wife, not some whore you just date for a while.
First make sure you'll be able to have a stable household, that doesn't mean only having a good career, but being a person you'd want your kids to look up to, which includes good hobbies, a close relationship with your girl and planning to have some free time to dedicate to the kids. Most teaching methods apply to groups/classrooms, if you manage to make your kids enjoy learning/reading then most of the job will already be accomplished (as long as you provide them with the correct books to study, of course). Sure, you need to push them along a bit, but the sooner they're able to do things on their own and only look for you for specific guidance the better. If you're at /sci/ you must understand that the only real way to study is doing it by yourself, so after the initial stages such as teaching them how to read, which can easily be done through playing, your task is teaching them some self reliance. And then do other things like camping and sports with them so they have a balanced life and don't just spend their days with books.
If the socialization part troubles you, you could very well put them in school a bit before high school, if you did everything correctly they'll be far ahead by then. I remember reading an article (as in a proper article, not some mag or newspaper) proving how it's possible for homeschooled kids to have good social skills, but it was a long time ago and unfortunately I haven't saved it, but I'm sure you can do some research on this topic yourself.
And whatever happens, make sure you and your wife are on the same page. As much as I believe you shouldn't just let her go, both because you were lucky to find a quality girl and that would be taking advantage of her, you need to have more or less the same goals and values if you plan on having kids.
