>>12309253And?
You make that sound like it’s a bad thing.
Being consciously aware of ones life is the only way to live AFAIAC
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>>12309238I have no interest in getting random broads pregnant.
I can be sexually attracted to someone without a relationship, but I will not want to pursue a sexual relationship without the emotional one first.
Until I know my partner well enough to think we’re at least not a bad match, getting physical is honestly uncomfortable for me.
Like I said here
>>12305764If I work with someone, or are friends, with someone for a while, and our relationship quickly builds up to a sexual one, I have no problem with that. I have had the established time to come to know the person and build a rapport with them.
But there is still a fine line for me.
The one time I was involved in a casual hookup, I didn’t know it until it was too late.
We did work together, and had gone bowling and gotten food + met at a work party, but beforehand we had barely talked.
She ended up coming over to hang out, suggested we go to my room. And the rest of the night, she lay in bed next me, nothing happened.
I wasn’t really comfortable yet with that, she didn’t try to initiate, and that was it for that night.
She came the following night, spent another few hours laying next to one another conversing, before I felt comfortable at least making out.
We did proceed to have sex from there, but afterwards is when she informed me she wasn’t looking for anything serious.
I said okay, dumbfounded.
And after several days of my emotions tormenting my interactions and text conversations with her, I called things off completely with her.
The sex wasn’t even all that great desu, she lay there like a dead fish, and because I hadn’t yet reached 100% comfortability with her, there was a pervading air of awkwardness through the whole affair.
Not worth it for me.
I have no problems with other people doing casual shit. But it’s not what I want.
