Hey, you
Lately I have been quite interested in dating/relationships, especially in modern times with the introduction of the birth control pill and (now) socially acceptable dating apps.

I have been visiting different communities ("manosphere" types mainly) and I think there are two grop of men. Those who believe that the right set of mind is enough to attract most women and those who believe that looks/money and, in a lesser extent, status are crucial to get pussy.

What does /sci/ thinks about this? Do you guys can recommend me some scientific papers or books? Men's stories are funny to read but I want a more scientific approach to it.