>>12218906Yep...
>>12218908Not consciously, but it seems like the potential to impregnate is key for connecting arousal to a given person. For example a woman who is sterile, somehow she would become less attractive. Don't know, hard to explain. Perhaps you're right then, I see mutual pleasure and all the rest of it as just parts of a ritual which may eventually lead to children. If that destination doesn't exist, a large chunk of the foundation of the structure is lost. Even if no children are desired.
This is probably the difference between people for whom looking feminine is good enough, and those who reject traps.