>>12164847The core self and emotional structure is transmitted and constructed primarily by the mother. "Mother is the first other", and through the reflections and treatment you receive from her, adn her mitochondria, your sense of self, value system, needs, and attachment are eestablished. Mother is God, she is in the larger part your creator. The mission programmed into you and templates you use through the rest of your life, were first traced out by her.
Your intellectual architecture is transmitted by both, but I think which predominates is probably sex dependent. Men more like fathers, daughters more like mothers.