>>12043413But ofc all in all those are just minor things, the three main things are, I did find her hot anymore, she wouldn't have been able to educate my future children on school topics (don't need an austist, just someone who around university level """smart"""), we were falling into behavioural patterns of a 50 year old married couple after only 3 years of relationship, like instantly jumping on someones words because of previous (very old) context etc.