>>12028571Bars and places with music are not good to meet a stable partner. Womem in those places are looking for a quick fuck and dont bother listening you, even if you played well during the night. A partner for life is met in an environment where you can talk calmly and exchange ideas.
That being said, the only reason I would pursue music would to get laid. The orgies from arts departments were well-known in my university. So definitely there is something odd about you.
Anyway, if I were you I would try those super strict virgin christian girls that only will have sex after marriage. Or a paid dating app where you explicitly state what you want and your situation (not the financial one tho). Or stay in some country for at least a month where women are more traditional. When I lived in Germany womem used to approach me but I never closed a deal, while now in a 3rd world country I get laid if I want to.
If you want to just get laid install some dating app and lower your standards - it is good to control anxiety as well. Good luck
